aneczyk
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Post by aneczyk on Jan 11, 2018 7:16:31 GMT -6
A thread for anyone here who is either:
A) attracted to people of their same gender alignment
B) not cisgender
C) both
So...
1. What is your gender and sexuality? 2. What are your pronouns? 3. How out are you? 4. How long have you identified the way you do now? |
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Chev
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Struggling to learn and grow.
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Religion: Oh, ain't that the question
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Post by Chev on Jan 27, 2018 15:34:01 GMT -6
*Waves.* I use both bi and pan, mostly depends on what colors I like more for the day, but don't care which people use in reference to me. I am and use general female pronouns myself. I'm "out" to a few people, for the most part don't really care that much, but I get guarded about it with people I don't really know - depending on my emotional level. I used to mostly exclusively use pan after I learned about it in high school, mostly as a way to make myself unique, but now I just... really can't care that much. Sometimes I like red/blue/purple, sometimes I like pink/yellow/cyan more. *Shrug.*
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aneczyk
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Post by aneczyk on Nov 10, 2018 10:03:16 GMT -6
wow I just ignored this site forever because I thought it was dead. I'm a nonbinary GNC woman who uses he/him pronouns and I currently identify as bisexual but am generally repulsed by men, especially cishet men, and highkey questioning if I'm a lesbian but I don't really want to call myself that when my aversion to men comes from trauma and misogyny, since I've had so many experiences with them violating my boundaries, mistreating me, and making me feel unsafe for their own selfish amusement and I think claiming a sexuality should feel like a healing process rather than something you do because you're traumatized by, and want to isolate yourself from, your oppressors.
Anyway...
The first person I came out to was my youth minister (I identified as Catholic at the time) when I was 16. I came out to a few of my friends and my extended family in 2014, when I was 16, and as nonbinary not long after. I'm 21 now.
I identified as a trans man for awhile because I thought I couldn't want to go on T, get top surgery, use he/him pronouns and masculine coded titles, be as dysphoric as I was, and still be a woman, even a nonbinary woman. But I've identified pretty solidly as a nonbinary woman for about 2 years now. I've also gone back and forth between lesbian and bi and just wlw for a while and there was a period in high school where I identified as gray aro and gray ace, but right now nonbinary bi tomcat feels most comfortable to me and it has pretty consistently for about six weeks but I still have a lot of self doubt and a really complicated relationship with my gender and sexuality.
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